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Post by pruesangel on May 3, 2006 20:26:28 GMT -5
Hello,
yes i am wondering if either of you can help me with a problem, well this is it....I dated a guy for three years and then it ended with him accusing me of cheating on him. Now he has heard the truth from several people and is apologizing for his mistake of accusing me, and im not sure what i should do. I love him still and i want to be with him but Im with someone else at the moment. Im confused as to who i should be with I have been with my current boyfriend for a while now. Please help if you can.
Thanks always,
your sister
Prue (Ash)
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Post by PiperHalliwellP3 on May 3, 2006 20:55:05 GMT -5
Hello.
You have to ask yourself how you feel about your current boyfriend. Do you love him? Do you feel like you have a future? If yes, I would stay with him, unless you are with him on a date and thinking about and wishing you were with your ex. But, if you do break up with your current and go back with your old boyfriend you have to make sure there are no trust issues. A relationship is built on trust. If you can't trust him or vice versa, you have nothing. It probably won't last. But sometimes love is a risk. You've heard the saying "The best things in life are worth fighting for". Well, I say The best things in life are worth taking a risk for. But, keep in mind, you might get your heart-broken. I just really recommend you have no trust issues. Sit down and talk with him before you do anything. Hope I helped.
Kate <3
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Post by pruesangel on May 3, 2006 22:58:11 GMT -5
thanks, i think i know what i am going to do now....i wish i knew how to repay you....well take care and once again thanks
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Post by PiperHalliwellP3 on May 4, 2006 13:28:23 GMT -5
It's my pleasure. I'm glad I helped you out.
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Post by leolover on May 5, 2006 15:17:43 GMT -5
i think my boyfriend is cheating on me. but im scared to ask him if he is,or even go on a date with him.
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Post by faithsangel on May 5, 2006 15:25:04 GMT -5
Hey,
Before you make any accusations it may be best to try and find some proof, you don't want to make an assumption and then it ends up ruining the relationship if he isn't.
Try not to be scared, if he is cheating then he's not worth being scared over! If he isn't, then it may be an idea to talk to him, maybe tell him that you feel that you aren't as close or something like that.
One of the most important thing in a relationship is communication, if you can't talk to each other then it probably won't work.
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Post by pruesangel on May 5, 2006 18:00:57 GMT -5
Faithsangel thats good advice for leolover.......im glad you made the advice column you to piperhalliwellp3 you two are amazing....and thanks to you....i have settled things with my friend....she has backed down and we are back to being the good friends we were no pressure.......THANKS A BUNCH!!!
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Post by PiperHalliwellP3 on May 5, 2006 21:11:26 GMT -5
Hey LeoLover,
I don't really have anything to add. I totally agree with Faithsangel. That was the perfect answer. You really need communication in a relationship. And if he is cheating on you, he's not worth your fear or your tears. You are better than him and that. But, you really need to find out for sure or not. Hope I helped.
Kate <3
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Post by leolover on May 8, 2006 17:15:03 GMT -5
thanks so much piperghalliwellp3 and faithsangel i really think that will help alot
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Post by leolover on May 8, 2006 17:23:07 GMT -5
hi,
i have a problem. my dads in jail and last time i went to visit him he seemed like he didnt want me there. but the problem is i cant get it off my mind especially at school and its causeing me to get off focus. i talked to a counslor about it and it didnt help. i just need to know how to be able to concentrate
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Post by PiperHalliwellP3 on May 8, 2006 20:22:08 GMT -5
Hello,
Well, the only way to get this off of our mind is to get it out. You should talk to your dad. Ask him if he wants you there or no. Tell him you will respect him response either way. It may be hard to see you once in a while, but not all the time. It may be breaking his heart. If he says he wants you there, then, well your golden. If he tells you no, then just say ok. Try not to act too upset, because that will make him upset. If you need to tell him something or feel like you need to talk to him, write him a letter. But, don't mail it. You will get all of your feeling out, but you will also be respecting his decision. I hope everything turns out okay for you. Hope I helped!!
Kate <3
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Post by faithsangel on May 9, 2006 10:47:21 GMT -5
Once again, a fantastic response from Kate  I agree totally with what she says, the only way you will sort this out in your mind is by talking to him. Gem x |
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Post by leolover on May 9, 2006 19:11:01 GMT -5
thanks so much
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Post by Daz on May 11, 2006 15:13:24 GMT -5
can you help me! I just feel so fed up with everything and I'm not that sore weather to say anything to any it has taken a lot to ever do this and I'm really scared about this final presentation what I have to do, sometimes I just what to end it all you know giving up and going to a better place. Daz   |
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Post by PiperHalliwellP3 on May 11, 2006 18:05:47 GMT -5
Hey,
Believing you will do well is half the battle. That is my favorite quote. Don't give in. Just take everything as it comes one step at a time. Every life is worth living. Everything will get better. Imagine leaving everyone you love behind...I can't even picture it. You need them and they need you. Just take a few deep breathes, and you will do fine with this presentation. And if you blow it, it's not the end of the world...Your life won't be ruined. Life is worth living, so live it to the fullest. Hope I helped.
Kate <3
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