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Post by piperforme on Sept 2, 2006 23:44:31 GMT -5
ok, i havent told anyone this, not even my best friends so you know this has got to be big. ok, well here it goes: my step brother is a year younger than me, and one night when i was at my dad's house, and i woke up to find that he was laying on top of me, touching me. i dont know how many times he's done it since then, or even before that, heck i dont even know if i'm still a virgin because of him. i dont know what to do.  |
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Post by pipersangel on Sept 3, 2006 12:57:43 GMT -5
You know its wrong and what you have to do, TEll HIM TO STOP IT OR YOUR GOING TO TELL YOUR PARENTS and see what his reaction is first. He mite think its ok to let it happen and by you confronting him it mite scare him a little but dont let him bully you, if he does, tell him that somebody else knows and there going to go to the police if you let them know it hasnt stopped. please tell your parents anyway whether they believe you or not they can not not deal with the issue once you bring it into the open. HOPE THIS HELPS YOU SOME HOW LET ME KNOW
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Post by faithsangel on Sept 4, 2006 8:58:20 GMT -5
You HAVE to tell someone, whether it's your parents, a teacher etc etc. This is not right behaviour at all.
As long as all he has done is touch you, then you are still a virgin, ok?
Please let us know what happens!
Gem x
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Post by piperforme on Sept 4, 2006 15:48:53 GMT -5
ok, well the thing is. my mom would ban me from ever going over there again, and i dont want that. i have a 7 year old half brother there as well, and i wanna be there for him. my step mom and dad, well it would just be too weird to talk to them about...
and with being a virgin still, if he's done this sruff while i was asleep, i dont know what all he's done to me...
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Post by faithsangel on Sept 4, 2006 16:49:25 GMT -5
Explain all this to your mum.....how you still want to see them, and be there for your half brother. She shoudl udnerstand.
You seriously do need tot alk to someone though, soemone responsible...
Gem x
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Post by holly-mad on Sept 5, 2006 6:32:59 GMT -5
tell some 1 at home u trust
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Post by piperforme on Sept 5, 2006 18:05:23 GMT -5
ok guys..heres the thing..my mother hates my father and will do anything to stop us from going over there to his house.
and as crazy as it sounds..i feel too ashamed and embarssed to tell anyone..i mean heck, this has been goin on since june and i've just know got the guts to ask you guys..
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Post by faithsangel on Sept 6, 2006 10:43:19 GMT -5
Please, please, I beg you to tell someone as what your step-brother is doing is extremely wrong!
Maybe you should tak to your father, explain to him whats going on? Then your mother won't be stopping you from seeing him.
How is your relationship with your step-mother, could you talk to her??
Gem x
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Post by piperforme on Sept 7, 2006 18:24:32 GMT -5
my relationship with my step mom is great! she always tells me to come talk to her if need be. and i know i should but i just feel as if its half my fault for some reason. idk why.
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Post by faithsangel on Sept 11, 2006 8:15:26 GMT -5
Feeling like its your fault is something a lot of people go through when this happens to them.
Please don't feel like that, you never know your step-brother mya not even realise he is doing wrong! The best thing you can do is to talk to either your step-mother or your father and get this sorted as soon as possible.
Gem x
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Post by PiperHalliwellP3 on Sept 11, 2006 21:17:31 GMT -5
TALK TO SOMEONE! You need too! You really need to explain what is going on...This can't continue.
I'm really sorry this is happening to you...
Kate <3
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Post by piperforme on Sept 12, 2006 19:12:33 GMT -5
its ok, i know its horrible, but i think i'm holding up pretty well, i havent like broke down and freaked out. do you guys think that if my 7 year old half brother sleeps with me at night when i'm at my dad's house wil discourage my step brother from doing anything else?
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Post by faithsangel on Sept 13, 2006 10:31:40 GMT -5
It may do...but you should still tell someone it has been happening as he may not realise what he is doing is wrong and it could cause problems for him as he grows up.
Gem x
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Post by piperforme on Sept 15, 2006 17:21:10 GMT -5
ok, i'll gather up some courage and take the plunge next time i go to my dad's house. i'll let you guys know what happens
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Post by Thunda on Sept 15, 2006 17:45:40 GMT -5
please do, I'll die if you don't...
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