A little advice would be good

[chaseme101]

Ok i am in quit a predicament here.

I am, and have been quit in love with me best friend for a little over a year now. I have no reason to believe that she returns my affections but I love her all the same. But she has this older brother... who also goes to our school... and well he kinda realy lieks me. And hes not horrable, im not attracted to him at all, but i have to keep appearances so i flirt with him and what not. He turned out to be a good friend so i invited him over one night when i was baby sitting and the kids had gone to sleep, one thing led to another and ... i kicked him out before we did anything to horrable. Well he took me to a movie this week and we wants to take me to prom. I want to stay friends with him, and well sooner or later he is going to find out who i realy like... that could get messy too... HELP!

[faithsangel]

Hey,

I would recommend that you be honest with the guy...not necassarily tell him that your in love with his sister, but just that you don't think things will work.

If your not honest with him and he finds out or you fall out with him because he is accusing you of stringing him along, it could affect your friendship with his sister aswell.

He, and so will she, respect you a lot more if your honest with him.

Gem x

[PiperHalliwellP3]

Hello,

You should stop what you have going on with the guy, before anything else happens. You do really need to be honest with him. Just tell him plain and simple "Things aren't going to work out". I'm sure he will get it. Then that will be taken care of.

Regarding his sister and your love. Tell him and or her when you are ready. If you are ready tomorrow, tell them tomorrow. If not, wait however long it takes. You have to be and should be comfortable with yourself, before you think anyone else will. Just don't be afraid to be who you are. There is nothing wrong with that. It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not. Stand up for yourself, and your feelings. I don't know about you, but I would rather die on my feet than live on my knees. Just think about it...Hope I helped!

Kate <3

[chaseme101]

You all certinly have helped, thank you very much. Its realy nice to get advice, thank you so much <3

[PiperHalliwellP3]

I'm glad we helped. If you ever need anything else, we are here!

[faithsangel]

ditto to what piperhalliwellp3 says

Gem x