hey i need help telling mom something very big

[piperlover]

well the big thing is that i want to convert to Judaism. now ive been raised on christanity but i dont believe any of the new testamony of bible. ive been thinking of converting for almost as long as i can remeber i cant stand christanity (no offense if ur christian) and im just ready to blow. if found a syngauge to go to and im planning to talk to the rabbi next weekend or this weekend. but non of that is going to matter if i dont convence me mother that this is a descion that im 100% positive about and that if i dont do this i probably withdraw again from the world because i feel alone. so how can i tell her and how can i convincer her to let me do this i really need an answer and it would mean so much to me thank you

[faithsangel]

Hey,

The best advice I can give you is to think about all the reasons why you want to convert, all the arguements your mum might have against it and your response to the, and write it down.

Armed with this, then sit down and speak to your mum about how you feel. Your mum should hopefully respect your desicion. If you do this as well, it will also show how responsible and mature you are, and how much it means to you.

Hope that helps,
Gem x

[PiperHalliwellP3]

Hey,

I was going to write basically the same thing. If you sit and talk to her about it, very calm and mature, it will show how responsible you are. But, don't rush into things with your faith. It may be hard to understand some things, but that is what faith it. Believing what can't be seen. You said you have been thinking about this for a while and all, so that is good. Just make sure you are ready to do something so big. And if your mom gets mad, don't start yelling or anything. She may need time to let it sink in. Just leave her alone for a while, and then re-approch her. Hope I helped!!

Kate <3

[piperlover]

thank u guys

[PiperHalliwellP3]

No Problem!