i need help on getting a best freind back

[susieqhoneybuns]

im having trouble on getting a best freind back to be my best friend.she is acting weird and not herself.all she cares about is being best freinds with her other best friend which she already is and i want to be in her life but she is acting weird.i want to be in her life but i dont know what else to do.my mom says stay away from her but i know what is going on with her other best friend ashley.all ashely wants is for her to take her around to places
like to chruch and to the mall and to special freinds a group that we all go together.brandy thinks that she is getting back together with her bf but i no she isnt.i know brandy better but i thought that i knew her but i dont.brandy is acting weird like she doesnt beleive me on anything.another source had told me that brandy had ganged up on my other best friend who we made up
me and phillp made up but me and brandy have not made up.i dont know what else to do.the parents want to step in.my mom wants me to stay away from her but i have a lot of things going on in my life like i think that i have breast cancer.im going to have a test done in july before we go to camp.also we do go to camp together and i have asked the dircetor if she would keep us apart during camp so that there want be any drama at camp bc we want to have fun.i found a lump i my breast two weeks ago when all of this started.i told her that i didnt want my name brought in her mouth and she didnt say anything about that.i do want to be friends with her but i think all she needs is a little taste of life outside of her home.so wednesday when i go to church i am going to give her mother a number to call to get brandy some help to get back to her old self.everytime that i am near her i get to wear i am going to coke her (as a joke).she is bringing ashley everywhere that she goes what am i going to do?do u have advice to get my best friend back?


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[PiperHalliwellP3]

Hey!

First off I want to say that I hope everything works out for you. Cancer is a scary thing, and I hope you will be ok.

This is very interesting, because I am going through a similar situation. If you are feeling excluded, exclude yourself, if they talk about tv or something, counter with something about your show. If they still blow you off, it isn't worth it. I'm sure you could find other friends. Maybe if you can't get her back to your friend, she wasn't worth having as a friend at all. If you have been friends for a long time, there is an irreplacable bond. However much she hangs out with new friends or even ignores you, when she sees you, she will remember your friendship. You can't just throw something like that away. You guys may have just drifted apart. You need to get together one night, just to hang out. Just like old times. Don't talk about how you haven't been hanging out lately or anything. Just watch a movie, and hang out. Trust me, one day together can make a huge difference. If, after that, she still blows you off, just leave her alone. Don't force yourself to hang out with her and get ignored. She might not be worth it. If she's not acting like herself, something may be up. Talk to her about it. Just be a friend, and see where that takes you. Let me know how everything works out. Hope I helped!!

Kate <3

[susieqhoneybuns]

she want even talk to me on the phone or anywhere else that we go together.she brings her other best along with her.she also listens on my coversations when i talk to people about this.i think
that ur right it wasnt worth it so im just going to have to have to
just ignore her at camp this year.i have talked to the director and asked her if she can keep us apart for this bc when she gets around this girl shes not acting herself shes acting weird.shes not acting like the person that i knew.i havent seen her act this weird berfore.this girl of hers best friend im afriad that she is using her to take her places.im scared that she is going to hurt her but when she does i cant be there for her.i have tried to call her to talk to her but she wat pick up the phone she has a caller id but everytime that i call she dont pick up the phone.i fell like something is going to happen bad from her but i dont know what?i asked a friend to find out more info on the girls but she hasnt called me yet.i think that other girl is going to hurt her but i cant tell when but when she she does hurt her i cant be there for her.i also think that this girl is acting like a baby.i think that both of them r acting like a baby.should i give her mother a number to call which is a hospital?its one of my favorties hospital they will take good care of her and get her back to her normal self.

[PiperHalliwellP3]

Hey,

I'm not sure if you should take it that far. She may just be going through something. Keep on her. Show her that you care. But, if these things continue then you should talk to her mom about it and see what she says. Let me know what happens. Hope I helped!!

Kate <3