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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jan 8, 2008 18:00:40 GMT -5
It has been since Dec 19, 2007 when I found out that my boyfrined Alex who I love very much.Was admitted into the hospital On Dec 18. He went into the hospital becasue he was coughing up blood and he was unconscious before he even got to the hospital. He woke up on Dec 19.maybe for 20 minutes before becoming unconscious again. Ever since then he really hasn't woken up. And I'm scared and Worried that he may not even wake up. It's been about 22 days since he was admitted to the hospital. And I guess I'm starting to lose hope and faith that he is gonna wake up and be alright.... Also I'm still trying to figure out Why? Why Alex why did this have to happen to him..He is ONLY 17 year old For God Sake. He has his WHOLE Life ahead of Him!! So if someone could explain that to me. And before you ask..My boyfriendwould never do drugs, drink or smoke so please don't even think about asking me that.!! Becasue I will not answer you becasue I'm tired of people asking me that!!!! I'm scared, confused and worried that he won't wake up ... He is Too Young to Die. Right??? He 's gonna be ok right? *Amy*
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Post by zero on Jan 8, 2008 18:53:20 GMT -5
He's going to be fine, and really nobody can answer why he's going through such a thing, all I can really do is pray for him and you and hope that God will bring him back to you safely. and I agree he is too young to die. God can keep him alive for you, I really believe he can do that for you and bring him back to you. But what makes me wonder has he gone to see any psycics or have anything kind of contact with people who do voodo, or anything like that. Because it could be a curse sent by a person to kill him it is possible. I don't mean to scare you, but I've come across people as a Christian who would curse others just to see them die or suffer because they think they deserved it, that's why I asked.
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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jan 8, 2008 19:21:03 GMT -5
I'm not sure about a curse or anyting.. But I DO have my doubts on what really did happen though.. Him and his step-dad don't really get along His step dad has hit him before.. So I have he is involed with why my boyfriend is like this.. *Amy*
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Post by zero on Jan 8, 2008 19:24:19 GMT -5
you can't blame it all on him though, has his step father spoken to you does he know anything?
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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jan 8, 2008 19:31:01 GMT -5
No, His sister has been keeping me updated with whats going on.. I know I can't blame it on him but I guess I'm just so confused and scared.. I guess the person I should be upset with is my boyfriend since he doesn't let anyone know how he feels until someting big like this happens, and he thinks he is like invincible most of the time he doesn't slow down. *Amy*
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Jan 8, 2008 23:48:36 GMT -5
Well I can tell you why:
Maybe it's time for him to go
Doesn't matter your age!
A girl and her father died at our school she was i tihnk 14 and her father was like 40 or 41.
She had more of a life ahead of her but it was her time to go.
The reason people are taken from the world is so we can learn to live without them.
But Do not give up faith or hope in him! If he knows in his heart your still caring and that he cna count on you then God will see that you can handle everything and he will let him survive this situation!
luvs,
AJ
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Post by zero on Jan 10, 2008 13:47:02 GMT -5
He isn't invisible and AJ is right God can change the situation to him, but you also have to prepare yourself if it really is his time to go.
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Post by Marie on Jan 10, 2008 15:00:48 GMT -5
Just hang in there you have to have faith that god is a miracle worker and with him all things are possible you just have to keep that faith in god.
Marie
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Post by brandyspaw on Jan 11, 2008 0:26:05 GMT -5
Amy, Please do not give up hope or faith. All you can do NOW is hope and pray for him. Only god knows what his destiny is meant to be. (Good or bad prepare yourself) There have been people known to be in a coma for years and then just come out of it for unknown reasons. But do spend time with him a, talk to him,let him know how you feel (it has been said that people in a come can hear what people are saying to them). But let me say this, HE is very lucky to have you in his life to love him as much as you do. Try not to give up hope!! I will say an extra prayer !
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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jan 13, 2008 14:23:37 GMT -5
Thank You, All. I know I shouldn't give up hope.. And I'm not going to but, is there the possiblty that he might forget me or break up with once he does recover??
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Jan 13, 2008 15:41:14 GMT -5
I highly doubt either.Just make sure your there for him right now when he needs you most.Go to his room hold his hand kiss his cheek.Let him know you would risk everything and give everything for him.He may be unconcious ,but he can still feel.
AJ
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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jan 13, 2008 17:12:51 GMT -5
I would do all that if I could. You see this all happened while he was visting Family in MI, and I'm in OH and I can't get to him. As much as I'd like I can't.. And I wrote him a note so he could read when he got better and I have my so called friend ripping me apart that its TOO Mean.. this is what it says: Hey Sweetie; It is just your Sweet Amy =) It is Jan.10,2008. I hope your getting better, I miss you a lot. Every since I found that you were in the hospital and not up, I haven't been myself. I've been, Sad, Scared,Lonely, Confused, Worried, and at times Hysterical. When I say hysterical I mean I will start to cry, pray and beg God to Let you live. I have even ask God to let me trade places with you , let me be the one in the hospital instead of you, because honestly honey I would if someone would tell me how I'd switch with you in a heart beat. Because I can't think of how my life will be if I lose you. I don't think I can go on another day knowing that you wouldn't be here with me. That's how much I love you Alex As I type I'm trying to choke back tears that are in my eyes. Forget that I can't choke back the tears anymore I'm starting to cry now. And after I beg and offer I usually end up crying my self to sleep. and I can't tell you how many times I've have been doing that. As if I'm not already a mess with worrying about you. I love you, Love Amy. That is the letter I sent him that he could read once he gets better and everything.. Is it too mean?
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Jan 13, 2008 22:22:27 GMT -5
You are IN LOVE!!!!
Not a crush it's love.
Willing to switch places and to take your life instead of his is pure love.
If he reads that and he realizes how he would do the same if he were you then i garuntee everything will be alright.
God will let him survive he will!!!
P.S. Its not mean AT ALL!!!
AJ
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Post by zero on Jan 14, 2008 14:52:30 GMT -5
It' not mean. He'll feel better knowing you care for him this much.
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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jan 14, 2008 15:23:44 GMT -5
Ok bc one of my "so called " friends said that it was that all it would be doing is make him feel wrose and that I'm selfish becasue i don't know a person feels that I DON'T Care about my bouyfriend that I'm Just USING Him!!! Which I'm not I'm in love with him, as you read I'm willing to trade places with him heck If I could right now I would even die for him just to know that he'd be okay. Thats how much I love my boyfriend. Any adivce or comments on that? Like is she right or what Bc I'm so confuse, I mean I have my boyfriend's bestfreind agreeing with me that I'm not selfish. So Am I an dis she right about everything she said?
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