|
|
Post by leolover on May 13, 2007 8:58:40 GMT -5
My New Boyfriend dumped me a month ago and I found out the only reason he went out with me was on a dare I really dont know how to take this and I need help can you hekp me?  |
|
|
|
Post by blacksheep on May 19, 2007 12:21:26 GMT -5
Oh thats got a hurt. A jerk like that doesn't deserve you. You deserve better. Now what you sufferd from was a common prank. Why they did that to you I have no idead Some people are mean and with time you'll get over it. I think talking about it helps though and you'll get over it in time. What helps me when someone hurts me is I think about a demon or werewolf attacking the person. I hope this makes you feel better and to let you know your not alone. I was bullied in high school also my ex girlfriend hurt me years ago.
|
|
|
|
Post by chrmd4life on May 21, 2007 16:20:43 GMT -5
I thought the advice columnist were the ones who should be answering these? Did that change? I just want to follow policy.
|
|
|
|
Post by blacksheep on May 23, 2007 10:33:03 GMT -5
I know advice colomists are suppose to answer these and I did break a rule or two but personally I felt bad for Leolover. I was hurt by people and my ex girlfriend years ago so I have something in common.
|
|
|
|
Post by Paige Heather on Jun 4, 2007 3:00:51 GMT -5
Well,I think it is alright for anyone to post advice as long as they are good ones.And I apologies for my absent.Hey,blacksheep,your advice is quite good.
Now,leolover i am sorry to hear your bad love experience.Trust me,I know how it feels.
The advice from me is pretty simple,have a good talk to your trusted ones(friends,family members...you named it!) and cry over it,then try your best to forget about the hurt it cause.I know,I know you probably wanna scream at me and said it is too hard to even try,but it is the only way!I offer you one tips on forgetting that jerk--get yourself busy with works!Let alone it is studying,doing a job,go out and have a lot of friends around...just make yourself as busy as possible.And after a while,you'll find that he is now in your mind anymore.
Well,healing is a long process,but during these times,make sure that you DO NOT lock away yourself.Always chat with your BFF about it,it'll help.Next,try to have a laugh in the smallest joke.Make sure yourself think possitive is the best way for healing.If you are down,try to think of this:"It is his big lost for letting you go.You deserve someone better than him" or "the next guy will be the better guy"Than you will find that the world is full of hope!(and it is!)
Well,please continue to post in anytime.You can PM or e-mail me anytime if you need support.Just remember,you'll never walk alone.
Love,
Paige
|
|
paige
Witch
????#??? ???????? ?
Posts: 108
|
Post by paige on Jun 18, 2007 20:27:40 GMT -5
i think maybe if you love the person that you should go for it try and get him back and if you dont l;ove him then its just gonna be another thing that will be stuck at the bottom of your heart trust me... ive have problems with love now to so if you ever wanna talk and when you think of what your gonna do please contact me at my yahoo which is lilylolalover... home you true destiny will shift into place soon... paige...
|
|
