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Post by blacksheep on Jul 24, 2007 13:55:32 GMT -5
Okay my life is starting to seem like one huge mess. People I know keep on pushing me and pushing me even though they know I'm on pills for depression, Anxiety and Obssessive compulsive disorder. Today my mom's ex starts lectureing me and I tell him off. I don't know what to do. Its getting harder and harder to restrain my self and I'm scared that I'll do something stupid
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Jul 24, 2007 22:58:53 GMT -5
Dear blacksheep,
I think I understand your problem all you need to do is some
how tell them nicely what is wrong why you don't want them
talking to you like that and they need to stop.
If you tell the person off that only makes matters
worse just think about good thoughts and speak
from your heart not your mind and you should be
able to control everything!
Peace,
Love,
and joy,
Phoebe Halliwell
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Post by Lindz on Jul 25, 2007 20:14:53 GMT -5
Through experiences in the past the only best way to solve it all is by sitting down with the people you know and say 'Hey look I've got problems all I need is for you to support me not to be another problem on my shoulders'.
And explain to them what seems to be the problem and that you don't wanna be treated the way they are teating you.
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Post by blacksheep on Aug 29, 2007 11:14:39 GMT -5
Thanks guys.
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Post by Prue on Sept 7, 2007 10:47:06 GMT -5
Yeah just say nice things don't lose the head and go in all guns blazing just sit and tell them why it bothers you.
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Post by Paige Heather on Sept 11, 2007 5:05:06 GMT -5
Dear blacksheep,
By the way,I don't really think taking pills is a good thing to do.Maybe you should find another way to let your stress out.You know,depression, Anxiety and Obssessive are all cause by stress.It is better if you find somebody to talk to.Well,I am posting my personal e-mail here,if you need anyone to talk to and cannot find anyone,I am always available.
My e-mail: paige_hthr@yahoo.com
Friendster:paige_hthr@yahoo.com
Contact me if you need someone to listen!Remember,you never walk alone.
Love,
Paige
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Post by Prue on Sept 21, 2007 13:28:19 GMT -5
Pills probably aren't the best option unless given by a doctor i agrre with you^
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Post by prudence on Oct 9, 2007 16:39:53 GMT -5
Well when given apples, make apple sauce... You can keep holding it inside of you or you can find some way to channel it into something productive. For me drawing works, going out for the day works (So you only have to sleep there and actually be present), and it works if you deal with the main issue, if there not just loading everything on you. If they are just loading everything on you, then it is a big problem. Because unload that much on someone who is younger really hurts more then unloading all the crap on someone of the same age. I also take Karate class, to help channel my anger and of course you could always focus all that into your gift, if you have one. Hurting them can help, but I wouldn't recommend that.
~Prudence~
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Post by Forever_Charmed on Nov 1, 2007 10:05:28 GMT -5
Hunni OMG i could never understand you better! i go throught this alot.
I can't really give you any advise except the one that i get because i
am fighting the same thing,
don't do anything stupid. as in suicide or "Cuting" yourself. it is a quick
fix that leads to worser things
<3
COurt
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Post by brandyspaw on Nov 30, 2007 2:12:51 GMT -5
You need to sit down and speak to your mom. And she needs to hear what you just told us!
If she does not listen I suggest you go speak to a school conselor and tell them the same thing you told us! you need to get help!! It could be your meds are not working that's why you feel overwhelmed and cant deal with things. I also suggest you GO to your doctor that prescribed the meds. Even if it means making the appointment yourself and getting a ride.
Also what right does your mom EX have to be lecturing you! Your not his kid. Tell your mom he needs to BACK OFF and mind his own business. If he doesn't like something you did or said he should tell HER and she can speak to you in the proper manner that it needs to be delt with. Otherwise he should F*** off!
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Post by piperhalliwell13 on Jan 1, 2008 21:13:49 GMT -5
it is completely ok to be angry at someone who is annoying you. my step-dad keeps lectureing me and i cant take it and start screaming and shouting. most people these days have a slight anger management problem. i dont know one person that dosnt! i hope this helps!
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