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Post by Paige Heather on Sept 25, 2007 5:10:29 GMT -5
Well,I have got to express some of my feelings here,maybe some of you will think that it is lame for me to say this,but even as an advisor,I have my own problem...
Well,I am in love now,with a guy that knows I like him.Though he shows nothing because I didn't really say it out loud.The good thing is,even he knew that I like him,he is still being nice to me,chat with me and help when I need him.He is a really sweet person,and a very cute one too.Now as our most important exam approaching,he is really concentrating on his school and I dare not to tell him how much I like him.But the problem is,it seem to be harder and harder to contain my secret.I hate this helpless feeling,and I am confusing about his feeling to me.It makes me want to read his mind and see how he feel about me.I don't know where my problem is but I am still having head ache thinking off him and everything that may or may not happen.I wonder if i can get help?
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Post by Prue on Sept 25, 2007 13:32:50 GMT -5
I think try to contain your feelings until the exam is over then you should try and tell him how you feel you never know what may happen.
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Sept 25, 2007 15:26:13 GMT -5
Dear PaigeHeather,
Its ok just cause your an advisor doesn't mean you don't need help sometimes to lol. I think you should tell him but what signs your showing is just a crush. I say you go up to him and say" ____ I have a little crush on you and I know my feelings are real i'm not saying i'm in love because i'm not I just have a crush on you I understand if you don't want to talk to me ever again!" then start to walk away he should say " No Its ok I understand!" or something a long the lines of saying he doesn't want you to leave.
Sincerely,
Phoebe
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Post by Lindz on Sept 30, 2007 20:07:54 GMT -5
I think you just tell him after the exam. It may come to a shock to him so it could distract him from the exam.
Make sure you tell him how you feel about him and the walked away. If he follows you or tells you to stop he may have some feelings he needs to share with you also.
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Post by leolover on Oct 8, 2007 22:11:24 GMT -5
umm hi i really like my ex and do not know how he feels and im not ready to express that because 1. he is my ex and 2 . he and i are good friends but i just dont know and need help
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Oct 8, 2007 23:27:04 GMT -5
LeoLover you are not supposed to post on someone else's thread please delete your post and create a new one with your problem you will then get help faster.
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Post by prudence on Oct 9, 2007 16:34:32 GMT -5
Well when it comes to boys and there toys, is not easy. Sometimes you just have to go for it. I mean guy are really confusing at times, but most of the time they have the best of intentions. Also it seems that holding back your feeling for this guy is causing more problems then you want. Trying to supress something like that can cause more problems for you. But do try to wait if you can till after the exam before telling him. Just don't wait too long, keep that kind of secret can really tear you up inside if you can't tell someone about it.
~Prudence~
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Post by Paige Heather on Dec 17, 2007 3:20:48 GMT -5
Hey,thank you a lot for your advices!I really appreciate them.
I had told him during our graduation trip,he is cool about it .He told me a lot,and never reject me right away,just tell me that he need to concentrate on his study first and hope we can be friends.He also said that he rather not begin a relationship now because he wanna go and further study,which will cause a lot of troubles in the relationship.
Anyway,I am happy now,even that i am only his friend.He never says he doesn't like me so I think we have a chance!
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