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Post by Adelaria Halliwell on Sept 28, 2007 11:34:21 GMT -5
I just found out yesterday my latest ex boyfriend that I broke up with a week ago commited suicide. I feel so bad. It was my fault. What should I do. I cant eat I cant sleep I just feel so guilty.
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Sept 28, 2007 17:52:42 GMT -5
Dear Adelaria,
Ok man you have a lot of threads on here lol but i'm glad to help anyone no matter the cost.Well I don't think its your fault it would be his he made the choice .If he would have asked you and you said yes then it would have been your fault but I doubt he even asked you.There really isn't anything you can do.He is in a better place and thats the only thing you can go on.
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Post by Prue on Sept 29, 2007 10:06:16 GMT -5
You shouldn't blame yourself for what he done not in anyway ,(not unless you assisted him which i highly doubt) just try and move onin life even if it is dificult.
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Post by Lindz on Sept 30, 2007 20:04:06 GMT -5
Not blame yourself hunnie. You weren't the one at fault. He made the decision to end his life. We all need to get on with our lives. It sucks big time but thats the way things go.
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Post by Forever_Charmed on Nov 1, 2007 9:43:17 GMT -5
Dear it is not your fault at all! I knwo it hurts really bad, i know it makes you feel like its all your fault. buthun. it only brings you down. it hurts i understand, but worring about it only will bring yourself down and hurt your <3 Courtney
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Post by Adelaria Halliwell on Nov 25, 2007 23:30:37 GMT -5
Thanks guys. Lol Alyssa. " I have a busy life. I know it's notrealy my fault I just feel so bad about it. He told me when we were going out thathe couldn't live without my love and I guess that was true.
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Post by badbitch18 on Nov 29, 2007 16:51:36 GMT -5
why you think you did it. Look it wasn't you that did it,it probably was him. It is not your fault and somebody else probably made him feel like that.
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Post by brandyspaw on Nov 30, 2007 1:08:10 GMT -5
Don't let yourself think that it was your fault. It's not. Most people who commit suicide have been thinking about it for a loooong period of time before they actually do it. So it had nothing to do with you. It's self destruction on their part. So don't blame yourself.
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