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Post by Forever_Charmed on Oct 24, 2007 13:35:24 GMT -5
Me and My boyfriend have been together for almost 8 mnths now. And i really do love him a lot. and today by accident i signed on to his email because it auto signs on and he must have been on the computer last, and i saw that he had about 200 emails fromt he girl that he cheated on me with about 6 mnths ago. and i don't really know what to do. i mean hes cheated on me 3 times already. I don't want to confront him about it because he might think that i was invaiding his personal space. but i mean he acts completely not like him. and even his friends see it in him. hes became very abusive and is strating to serisouly scare me. I mean he calls and cancles are plans all the time. and claims that he is going to "Erics" but when Eric gets on msn. and i ask him what him and Ryan are doing hes like uhm Ryan said he was with you. and i don't know..... im really confused i don't want to let him go because ilove him very much..... Help me
♥ Courtney
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Oct 24, 2007 19:09:54 GMT -5
Dear ♥ Courtney,
Hun I think its best you leave him to his own and leave him single.Love is a strong word and after the 1st time of cheating you where right to give him a second chance but not a 3rd or 4th its just cruel.He doesn't clearly deserve it.If he can't treat you right he needs to forget about you.You need to move on leave him in the past that way when you get older you will ahve something to talk about with your friends!
♥│Alyssa│♥
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Post by Forever_Charmed on Oct 24, 2007 21:49:32 GMT -5
Yes this i know... i just need to get up the courrage and do it. but its just finding it first
thanks you <3
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Post by xScenexQueenx on Oct 25, 2007 16:53:15 GMT -5
Dear ♥ Courtney,
Your welcome and hun the best place to find courage is to look inside,
Your own heart and pull it out.You may think it isn't there,but Courage,
Is always there no matter how far or deep down it is!
♥│Alyssa│♥
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Post by Big Brother on Oct 26, 2007 11:21:12 GMT -5
first off NO ONE should have to live in an abusive relationship, you will only get hurt mentally and psyically ! plus you will hurt your friends by having them stand back and seeing you be with him knowing that he is wrong for you. hey i'm a guy and i have always heard once a cheeter always a cheeter.
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Oct 27, 2007 14:36:52 GMT -5
I agree, split up! If he isn't appreciative of you, it's his fault and not yours. And though it's hard, the courage is in you (in everybody) as AlyssaJMilano already said... don't let him play with you! Your not a toy, for nobody!
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Post by Forever_Charmed on Nov 1, 2007 9:40:00 GMT -5
Thanks Everyone. Well i did leave him it was reallyhard
the thing is now. not taking him back but thaks <3
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Post by badbitch18 on Nov 23, 2007 11:46:26 GMT -5
Me and My boyfriend have been together for almost 8 mnths now. And i really do love him a lot. and today by accident i signed on to his email because it auto signs on and he must have been on the computer last, and i saw that he had about 200 emails fromt he girl that he cheated on me with about 6 mnths ago. and i don't really know what to do. i mean hes cheated on me 3 times already. I don't want to confront him about it because he might think that i was invaiding his personal space. but i mean he acts completely not like him. and even his friends see it in him. hes became very abusive and is strating to serisouly scare me. I mean he calls and cancles are plans all the time. and claims that he is going to "Erics" but when Eric gets on msn. and i ask him what him and Ryan are doing hes like uhm Ryan said he was with you. and i don't know..... im really confused i don't want to let him go because ilove him very much..... Help me ♥ Courtney beat his ass |
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Post by brandyspaw on Nov 30, 2007 1:28:14 GMT -5
I have an ex-husband who used to act and treat me the same way.
Well thats why he's my EX-husband.
You deserve better than that. And dont worry about courage, you'll have it when you need it most! Plus time heals all wounds.
So if you haven't dumped him on the curb like the trash he is , I suggest you do so soon!
Good luck!!
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Post by Forever_Charmed on Apr 8, 2008 13:11:43 GMT -5
Thanks Everyone for your advice. we were together for a bout 2 months after that. but if you read my poem that i just posted on the FanFic it will tell youhow it all ended. but it got very abusive and he cheated on me once more. than a few weeks back he wanted to be with me again. but thank you everyone that helped a lot
Love
Courtney
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Post by Piper Halliwell on Apr 28, 2008 14:55:44 GMT -5
hope you can get through this time and dont back down
xx
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