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Post by piperhalliwell13 on Jan 3, 2008 13:26:04 GMT -5
my step mum is a horrible bitch! she may not live with me but when im with her she makes me soo ANGRY! she bosses me around all the time even though my dad says i dont have to do housework while im with them. even her daughter emma trys to stick up for me but she wont have it! i have even shouted at her but then she slaps me! my mum was in southhampton rehab centre at the time and last time i saw my step mum my mum had called me. she was asking to speak to my dad so i let her. when my dad came back he said ' she wanted me to give her support money to you!' (speaking to me) then my step mum said 'no wonder shes in the nut house!!!!' and then she laughed! it made me so upset! i need alot of advice coz i havent told my mum yet and i dont want to upset her!
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Post by zero on Jan 3, 2008 13:45:24 GMT -5
Honestly, this problem is huge, but part of the reason she hates you could be do to the fact that you remind you're stepmom of your mother and that pisses her off.I go through the same thing my dad married another woman before mom and the lady doesn't like me because I remind her like a constant mistaje that keeps coming back to her everytime she sees me, she feels like she failed somehow, because I was born and he's my father. So there's tensions between us. It's slowly starting to change, and I'm christian and most of the time is God doing the work, because their nothing I can do this happened before I was born. So this is outta of my hand I have to let God do what he does best heal the broken hearted. As for you I would honestly pray to God about because He's the only one that can change the heart of man. And ask God to touch the root of her pain. There's more to the matter than what it seems.
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Post by piperhalliwell13 on Jan 3, 2008 13:49:06 GMT -5
thx that helped alot but i still live mostly with my mum so its hard not to talk about her! and how do i stop her slapping me?
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Post by zero on Jan 3, 2008 13:54:30 GMT -5
That's all up to you. she is adult but she also has to respect you as a person don't sdo anything to piss her off and control your temper be humble.
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Post by brandyspaw on Jan 6, 2008 2:01:10 GMT -5
First of all your step-mom needs to keep her hands to herslf. She has no right to hit or slap you. Your father needs to be aware that she is doing that and he needs to put a STOP to it immediately, otherwise someone must call child protective services, child welfare or whatever services there is that protects children where you live. What she is doing is ABUSE whether it is physical(slapping) or verbal(yelling or calling you names).I think that it is great that your step-sister sticks up for you but it isn't helping because she continues to slap you. She needs help as well as you. If she sees you as your mother that is not YOUR fault. That is her issue and she may need counseling to resolve this "anger" problem.
It all comes down to your dad being a man and interjecting even if it's after the fact.
If she is only doing it when he's NOT there to interject then she has a mental problem and that's a sign that She is looking for attention/help.
Good luck! Keep up updated!
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Post by piperhalliwell13 on Jan 17, 2008 10:18:41 GMT -5
thx that really helped. im goin to live with them 4 a few weeks at easter so i can sort it out then. ur a good friend
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Post by Piper Halliwell on May 1, 2008 13:56:02 GMT -5
Hope it all goes well
Always
Georgia
xx
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Post by piperhalliwell13 on May 25, 2008 9:45:35 GMT -5
i stil aint wrkd it out and she gettin really annoyin!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Piper Halliwell on May 25, 2008 10:28:00 GMT -5
Tell her to stop or tell someone about how you feel
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Post by charmeddestiny on Jun 2, 2008 21:12:42 GMT -5
tell her how u feel calmly and if she tries to slap u then run girl run LOL im sorry. just try talking to her and see her respnse
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Post by Lisa on Jun 18, 2008 7:36:54 GMT -5
You need to explain to your father that she is hitting you because she has no right to hit you hun. Have you ever asked her what the problem is as to why she does not like you much? I am a stepmom and I never hit them and we always talked about our problems. You should speak to your mother about it and ask her how to handle it without it getting out of control. Maybe you and your mother can think of away to solve the problem without viloence.
I hope that things work out for you for you don't deserve to be hit on or treated badly!
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