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Post by Juels on Jan 28, 2008 17:21:18 GMT -5
hi guy's i really need some advice , i found a lump on my breast , and i dont want to tell my hubby or scare my kid's if they hear me talking to my hubby , we have been together 24yrs and it scares the hell out of me if anything happen's to me and he is left alone with the kid's please can some1 give me some advice
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Post by HollymCombs on Jan 28, 2008 18:40:19 GMT -5
Hey,
I would suggest definitely talking to your husbend about it when you can get some time alone with him. There is a very good chance that it's nothing, but it's so much better to be safe than sorry. I know people who have had scares like this, and they ended up being completely fine. But if it is something to be concerned about, it could very well be taken care of since you seem to have caught it quickly. You don't even have to tell your children, just talk to your husbend and go to a doctor to get it checked out.
I know that it's really scary, but I know you will get through this. We're all here for you.
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jan 29, 2008 9:02:02 GMT -5
Yeah, you really should go and see a doctor... just to know what and if something's wrong.
I think your husband would rather like to know about it then not... if you imagine being him you'd probably rather be scared and know about it then not know anything...
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Post by brandyspaw on Jan 30, 2008 0:42:49 GMT -5
I agree with Holly & MS.Haliwell you need to speak to your husband alone in private. I think he would rather know than not know.
You need to go to the doctor and have a mammogram and possible have a biopsy for it.
I speak from experience. I had a small growth on the inside of my leg. So I went to the gynocologist he took a skin sample and sent it to be tested. It had cancer cells. But I've been lucky. I go every 6 months , he takes a skin sample and so far the cancer cells have not increased. But the fact is I told my husband my concern from the begining and he's happy I told him. In fact he goes to the doctor with me,he says it makes him feel better because I'm not going through it alone.
Good Luck
Your not alone I'm here for you!
glo
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Post by Buffy on Jan 30, 2008 12:30:35 GMT -5
I agree, It's best to go get it checked up.. And if it turns out to be nothing, But a lump. Then you don't really have to tell them, But if it's something serious, You should talk to your husband..Im sure it's nothing, And I hate it when something really scares a person..It's horrible. Were all here for you.  Good luck xx |
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Post by Paige Heather on Feb 10, 2008 3:17:55 GMT -5
Dear Anonymous,
Hey,I agreed with them too!Go and check up,it is better thatn sitting around and worrying and guessing.Maybe it is nothing but a lump.
And I think you really should tell your husband about this.He deserve to know everything.And I am sure he will be there for you to support you,and he may wanted to be there for you very much.
I am here always.Good luck.
Love,
Paige
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Post by Juels on Feb 11, 2008 5:50:21 GMT -5
hi guy's thank's for the good luck and advice you all gave just to let you all know things are ok and i got the all clear thanks again |
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Post by Paige Heather on Feb 22, 2008 0:08:58 GMT -5
It is alright.Make sure to tell us how it goes...
Good Luck again!
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Post by Piper Halliwell on Apr 28, 2008 12:20:00 GMT -5
hi guy's i really need some advice , i found a lump on my breast , and i dont want to tell my hubby or scare my kid's if they hear me talking to my hubby , we have been together 24yrs and it scares the hell out of me if anything happen's to me and he is left alone with the kid's please can some1 give me some advice i would tell them my mum found a lump and she told me and my dad right away and yea we were worried but she went to the doctors and it wasn't serious so you should tell them hope it works out i wish you well |
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Post by Piper Halliwell on Apr 28, 2008 12:21:22 GMT -5
oh sorry ignore my last post it all worked out good luck in the future
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