I'm beyond Confused, In need of some advice

[piperhalliwell26]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, only thing is we have a long distance relationship, so we don't get to see each other that often. Ever since Dec we hardly talk Mainly because of his step-dad who is a jerk. His "Dad" grounded my boyfriend, from the phone and on-line so i can't talk to him. Also since he was in the hospital for (a month from Dec. to Jan.) He is suppose to come down over Spring break. Should I just wait for him to come down and talk this thing out or should I tell him how I feel now. Bc what I really want to tell him, is that "I'm tired, of being treated this way, yeah i know your step dad is a jerk but still you can't ignore me. So until you figure out what is more important to you, I think I should just be out of your life "
Think I should tell him that? Or should I wait and see if he actually comes down for Spring break? Another thing (no that I care but my family does) My bf has still yet to get me a Christmas present, should i take that in consideration also? Also, Alex has told me time an again how much he loves me. He has even told me that I mean more than life it's self to him. He told me that when he woke up from the coma he was in. And another thing apparently I'm one of the very few good things in his life, and I'm mainly the only person alive.

Any ideas on what i should do?

Any advice would be greatly helpful to me

*Am*

[Peanut]

Hi,

Let me tell you, you're not the only one going through this. A lot of people go through this. I'm in a similar situation. The guy I'm interested in is an ex but we've known each other for 3 years and we like each other and kiss and cuddled and stuff yet he tells me he isn't ready for a relationship and I'm sitting ripping my hair out because everytime I bring it up he goes "I'm not ready" and bla bla bla. Like me, you deserve an answer from your boyfriend. It really isn't fair that he hasn't given you an xmas present yet. If he actually cared that much about you like he say he does then he would have given you a christmas present on time.

You definately need to tell him how you feel now or it's gonna be bottled up inside you and then when you see him, you're going to be a lot more angrier and frustrated than now, that's why it's better to get it over with now. If you really meant that much to him, he would definately show you it some more so I don't think he's being truthful, if I have to say my honest opinion and I do. But keep in mind that I could be wrong.

Maybe he doesn't know how to show it to you that he cares but it's very hard with long distance relationships. AThey almost never work out because of the distance and now his step-dad is keeping him from you. Do what your heart tells you to. If you ever need to talk, just send a PM. I'll be happy to give more advice to you.

xxx Peanut

[Piper Halliwell]

I think you should tell him now before he comes down and save him the trouble long distance relationships are hard but if you two are meant to be you will come together when the time is right.

Always,
Georgia
xx