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Post by Buffy on Jun 2, 2008 17:51:20 GMT -5
Okay heres the thing, I have this close friend at school named Lauren, She's pretty, friendly etc..But she thinks she's all that, She's popular, Only dates good looking boys, Thinks she can treat unpopular people however she likes, And im popular to..But the funny thing is, She was supposed to be my friend, Yet today in English I said something and she said to me 'Your a W***e' and I looked down and said nothing, Lucky I would of otherwise I would of blurted something out, And the thing is she has an older brother and he'll probably have the biggest go at me if I tel her anything, and it's just really annoyed me how she just think she's all that and just says something so horrible!
I have no idea how to tell her how annoying and how much on a b***h she is without it comming out wrong.
Help Please x
Piper~ x
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Post by charmeddestiny on Jun 2, 2008 21:10:20 GMT -5
Dear Piper,
simply talk to her and tell her that its important and also say that u think shes ur best friend but sometimes she can be a handful. tell her nicely..........dont blurt out shes a b***h just simply say i need to talk to u and i have a problem with the way ur acting and explain it rashionally
and calmly
-love naj
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Post by Piper Halliwell on Jun 3, 2008 1:30:41 GMT -5
Dear Piper,
I had the exact same problem my so called "best friend" started being really mean to me so i just left her and said look if you just wanna throw away years of friendship then thats fine you will be the one losing a good friend and then she walked away and i havent spoken to hr since i think the advice on this depends on whether you want to be friends with her of if you want to just walk away like i did.
Always,
Georgia
x
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Post by Buffy on Jun 4, 2008 1:24:52 GMT -5
Thanks for all the advice!  I guess i'll just not talk to her..I don't want to be friends with someone like her, Thanks for all the idea's x Ily all so much! |
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Post by piperhalliwell26 on Jun 4, 2008 17:02:45 GMT -5
Want the simplest advice? Is don't talk to her. If shes gonna be like that too you. You don't need her in your life. Friends come and go. And if she was sucha "good friend" as she says she is then she wouldn't be say those things and do that. Do yourself a fovr and ignore her. But if you feel like you can't ignore her. Heres something my Aunt always told me pick your battles. If this is a battle you really think you need to "fight" then go for. But only you know if it is or not.
I hope that helped.
Good Luck
Ames
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Post by Paige Heather on Jun 7, 2008 23:50:13 GMT -5
Dear Piper,
Backstabbing happens like everyday in school today,I had also been a backstabber before,like a few years back,but then I was being backstabbed by my best friend,and I realize how bad it hurts so I decided to be a better person.
Backstabbing are cause by jealousy,you know that?
Well,I really think that you should leave that friends of yours for good.It's not like that you cannot find any others friend,so it's no point in changing yourself just to get her back to be your friend,popular or not,that girl just don't deserve your friendship.
And remember,don't become someone like her.Be yourself and try your hardest to ignore what others(especially her) talk about you behind your back.Whatever it is said,if it's not true,it's not.You know it and it's enough.'Cause if you respond to it,you may get peoples to feel it is true,and that fulfill the backstabbers' desire,doesn't it?
Ignorance is not affraid,it is the BEST way to get rid of backstabbers.And trust me,having once being as bitchy,I know what I am talking about.
Just,best of luck to you!
Love,
Paige
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Post by Paige Heather on Jun 7, 2008 23:52:33 GMT -5
And hey,charmeddestiny,Poppy Halliwell and piperhalliwell26,you guys are all great!Keep it up!
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