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Post by Piper Halliwell on Jun 3, 2008 15:54:15 GMT -5
Ok here is my story i was friends with this girl for about six years through Primary school and before we went to high school we were really exited and we were friends but when we got there she started being really cold and if i tried to speak to her she would give me a one word answer and then walk away then a week later she completely blocked me out she didn't speak to me or even acknowledge me i told everyone and myself that it didn't bother me but the truth is it really does i just don't know how someone could be that mean.
How do i get over it?
Always,
Georgia
xoxo
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Post by kendall on Jun 3, 2008 17:19:25 GMT -5
Georgia, Do you know why she is acting this way? Maybe you should confront her with this problem. Ask her why she is ignoring you, or trying to avoid you, and just tell her that you don't understand why she is acting the way she is. I actually had the very same problem last year. Once I confronted my friend, she told me why she was ignoring me, and we were friends again. It turned out that she did like Eric(my current boyfriend) she thought that he was really obnoxious. Anyway, back to the advice.  But if your friend doesn't talk to you when you confront her, maybe the friendship just wasn't meant to be. And maybe some of her new high school friends told her to act this way, that I'm not sure. Just make sure to confront her, and I bet you'll be ok. It's high school right? Lol. Gook Luck and Hope I Helped, Kendall |
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Post by Buffy on Jun 4, 2008 1:27:40 GMT -5
Wow..some people are cruel, But the exact same thing happened to me when I moved to High school, A boy called Toby. I smiled at him when I saw him and he just turnt around and started whispering to Isaac .. So I guess it's a natural way to act, Some people unfortunately like making news friends instead of talking to the same ones.  I guess if it means alot to you, try talk to him about it and say how much you liked your friendship and all.. I hope it helps and good luck xoxo Piper~x |
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Post by Piper Halliwell on Jun 4, 2008 9:58:33 GMT -5
Yea thanks Kendall and Piper i mean i did really like her she helped me so much when my dad died and at first i really wanted to be friends with her but now i don't she has just put me through too much now and i don't want to be her friend.
But i just still feel really hurt every time she ignores me or talks to someone i am talking to and then just takes them to where she is i just dont know how someone could just change completely like that and it is really hard for my best friend because she is friends with my ex friend and it just gets so annoying and i tell everyone and myself that it doesn't bother me and i have a new respect for life since my dad died and i don't get worked up about the little things which is partly true but i still cannot seem to shake the feeling that i get when she does those things to me it feels like i want to cry but don't.
And Kendall i did confront her and she just ignored me so.... and other people have asked her and she has not come up with an answer she said that i was thingy with her so she did not have a real explanation to why she did this.
Always,
Georgia
xx
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Post by kendall on Jun 4, 2008 17:20:51 GMT -5
Well, I'm sorry that she ignored you.  I think that she has moved on, and maybe you should to. It was the past, and now it's the present. If I was you, I would forget about her, and even though it may be hard...If she dosen't like you, thats her loss. And I think she needs to know that. Blessed Be, Kendall |
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Post by Piper Halliwell on Jun 5, 2008 1:44:49 GMT -5
Yea i am trying to it will come in time
Thanks for the help
Georgia
xoxo
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Post by kendall on Jun 5, 2008 5:47:04 GMT -5
Good for you! Glad I could help!
Blessed Be,
Kendall
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Post by Paige Heather on Jun 7, 2008 23:37:31 GMT -5
Dear Georgia,
Hey there!I am soory for the late reply...Hmm...I ahd also face this problem before,like 5months ago?Yeah,sometimes,peoples can be very cruel.They can like be your friends and earn you trust one day and then just give you are cold shoulder the other.It really hurts.
Well,in your case,now that she had really ignore you,why don't you just grab this oppotunity and get some new friends?I know she is your best friend and all,but if you don't go and get know of more people,how else are you going to know that you had really found your best friend?I had been having three peoples that I thought they all are my Best Friend For Life,but you know what?Most of them just left me for good in my needy time.And one even actually backstabbed me!Butv I move on,and now I really found one guy and he is my BFFL no matter what.He had been with me through my Ups and Downs and really had been that good a friend back.
Just try and make more friends,and be careful in judging them in the meantime.I am sure you will find your BFFL too!
Just remember,You'll never walk alone.
Love,
Paige
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But if your friend doesn't talk to you when you confront her, maybe the friendship just wasn't meant to be. And maybe some of her new high school friends told her to act this way, that I'm not sure. Just make sure to confront her, and I bet you'll be ok. It's high school right? Lol.
I think that she has moved on, and maybe you should to. It was the past, and now it's the present. If I was you, I would forget about her, and even though it may be hard...If she dosen't like you, thats her loss. And I think she needs to know that.
