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Post by charmedgurl557 on Jul 15, 2008 18:25:07 GMT -5
ok, my friend samantha and i have been bff's since i can remember. she got a boyfriend AND a job and still had time to hang out with me. bu tnow that she quit her job and broke up with her boyfriend, she's been completely ignoring me. whenever i ask her if she wants to do something, she always makes up a lame excuse. what should i do?!
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jul 17, 2008 11:07:53 GMT -5
Maybe you should give her some time... for how long has she already been "dumping" you? I can imagine her needing some time to think and be alone... especially because of the break up...
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Post by charmedgurl557 on Jul 20, 2008 14:32:03 GMT -5
yeah, but she just now started talking to me and that was ONLY because she thinks she might be pregnant. whenever something big happens, she'll talk to me. but if i want to hang out, she doesnt have time.
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jul 20, 2008 16:42:29 GMT -5
Well if she really fears to be pregnant she might just not have the nerve to hang out as if nothing was... who knows what goes through her mind right now... but it's good she talks to you again, isn't it? Are you usually together a lot? If so you might have pestered each other...
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Post by charmedgurl557 on Jul 20, 2008 21:42:17 GMT -5
well no were not really, cuz usually i call her every couple of weeks to see if she wants to hang out, to catch up. but who knows? maybe she'll change her mind eventually.
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jul 21, 2008 13:06:54 GMT -5
mh, I had a similar situation with one of my friends... I wanted more contact again, but she was busy meeting her other friends, with and boys... at one point I stopped calling her because I felt stupid running after her... But I didn't block her... and after some time she did an effort to get the contact back. And now were even going on holiday together.
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Post by charmedgurl557 on Jul 21, 2008 19:30:51 GMT -5
that's good. maybe i should try that with my friend
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Post by kendall on Jul 22, 2008 18:48:42 GMT -5
Ms. Halliwell is right. Give her time, and I think that she will come around. I also had this problem with my friend. She was kinda acting nervous around me, so I let her be. Then she called me one day and told me that she might be pregnant. So, I bought her a test, and she wasn't, she was just sick with the flu. Now were fine becuse she knew that she could rely on me to be there for her. So, my advice is to show her that she can rely on you to be there for her when she needs you the most.
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jul 23, 2008 0:15:54 GMT -5
good point kendall.
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Post by charmedgurl557 on Jul 23, 2008 10:26:44 GMT -5
thanks you guys! i really appreciate the advice.
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Post by kendall on Jul 23, 2008 11:41:24 GMT -5
no problem
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Post by Buffy on Aug 12, 2008 11:01:01 GMT -5
I'd have to agree with Kendall, All friendships are started off by being friendly and them knowing your trustworthy, So it's the same thing in your situation, She should come around.. People always do. But don't make it seem your always away from her then want to be with her, Tell her your here for her and you know spend time with her then she'll realise what a friend you truely are, Hope it helps!
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