Boyfriend trouble.

[kendall]

Hey,
I have been with my boyfriend Eric for almost two years now. We used to hang out all of the time, and thought that we would be together forever. But recently, Eric has been a little distant, and I feel that I don't want to be with him anymore. I know that he's not telling me something. And this is strange, because that was one of our #1 rules. No secrets. I just don't know what to do. I asked him what was wrong, and he just sat there looking out into the sky. I feel like asking him again, but I don't wanna get the silent treatment. So, do I break up with him?

And my other problem is, if I do break up with him, how will I meet another guy? Everybody at school knows us. That were a couple. Its going to be weird single, and trying to tell eveybody that I am single. What do I do?

Kendall

[HollymCombs]

You have to do what's best for you. The other things come second. So telling people that you broke up, and explaining why & what not all has to come later. You have to decide whether being in this relationship is what you want.

Although the first time you asked him he didn't get you a straight answer, I think you should ask him again. Even though you don't want to get the silent treatment, I think you have to give him another chance to explain himself. There could be a perfectly reasonable explanation for him being distant lately, who knows. I think you should give him the chance to explain that.

If he doesn't give you a straight answer, I think you have to be really honest with him. Explain that you've noticed the distance between you two, and are beginning to question your relationship. Maybe he is feeling the same way (and that's why he is distant), or maybe he isn't & he's just going through something else in his life. He might have no idea you are feeling this way, and may decide to fight for you and explain himself after all.

But if you just aren't having feelings for him any more, then that's another story. Then maybe whatever he says won't matter. That's something you have to think about. If you just aren't feeling anything any more, then that may mean that it is time for your relationship to end. If you do still have strong feelings for him, then maybe you should fight for it!

I hope this helped a little. Sorry it was so long lol

[kendall]

Haha, actually, I'm glad it was long! Thanks so much, and your right. I'm going to call him later.

[HollymCombs]

I'm glad I could help a little bit .

Good luck! Either way, I'm sure everything will work out for the best.