Reunited after years

[Forever_Charmed]

i need some advice.. When i was 4 My father left.. and he never returned he got into a lot
of trouble and he got arrested. My mother was 16 when she had me and so basically she
never sugar coated anything. She told me everything flat out and became my best friend.
She was my world and she still is today. and i don’t know where i would be without her.
But now.. I work at Lonestar 18 years old and his mother came in a few months ago.. and i
stoped her and asked her if her name was Bev and she looked at me and said yes whom
are you. i told her i was Star her eldest boys son.. and she like pulled me into her arms and
started to Cry. i was so scared and i started talking to My father and he started learning
more and more about me and like we were on the same page… and one night he made me
really mad he knows how i feel about things and its like he told me that i wasn’t to old that
he can’t bend me over his knee and im like im not 2 and he thinks that he can tell me that i
can’t talk to him the way that i do.. im a freshman in college and im an adult are you
kidding me! you can’t tell me what i can and can’t say when you haven’t been in my life
for 14 years.. and think you can just walk right in and think that you earned respect. but
what i need advice on is im going with my Aunt and My boyfriend to meet him all over
again for the first time and im terrified

[xxpiperxxhollyxx]

ok um lets start with the fact he treats you like a child. my fater does that 2. its because he hasnt seen you for 14 years so in his mind your still his 'baby'. its common with dads that havent been around for most of their childrens younger years.

my advice is to try and make him understand that your 18 and your not a child anymore.
hope this helps!!