In need of some freind advice

[piperhalliwell26]

My best friend has this crush on this one guy that goes to our school. He just so happens to be one of my good freinds to. The three of us have gone out together twice all just as freinds. My freind really likes him, its getting to the point now she will not even walked down the hall becasue she afarid to talk to him. Every other day its either I like him or its I don't like him anymore she can't make up her mind..She won't talk to him unless I'm there. Everynight on the phone when we talk we somehow always talk about him. She wants the three of us to go again so she can tell him how she feels.
Trying to help her is putting a strane on my own relationship with my boyfriend He is starting to get fed up with me having to deal with this.
I don't know how to tell her I can't do this anymore I need some advice badly. Please help
Ames

[•Kaylaaa.]

It sounds like she's pushing a lot of her problems with her telling him on you. But that's because she is your best friend and stuff. I have to say that I've been in the same position in 9th grade. My friend and I were great friends, but then I started to like our other really good friend. All three of us hung out frequently and I was always too afraid to tell him I liked him - and I did the same as you friend. Back and forth, "I like him, I don't!". Personally, whenever I confided in my friend I did that because I wanted someone to speak with, etc.

She's probably making such a fuss about everything because she's probably scared of rejection and wants someone to talk to - but it seems as though she is taking it over the line a tid bit. I think the best way to approach her is to probably have a serious conversation. Just explain that it's beginning to strain your relationship and you don't want her to feel that she can't talk to you, but she needs to manage a functional relationship with this guy without you basically holding her hand. I'm sure if you're really nice about it, I'm sure she'll understand your position, etc.

I hope you and her can figure it out. :]