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Post by Fibs on Oct 5, 2008 14:24:50 GMT -5
I read this article. I do not completely agree with it, but there's true. Sometimes 2 years also is BIG difference, but sometimes 10 years makes no, it really depense from the persons. Some 18teen years are totally kids, but sometiems 16teen yers old persons are as smart as adults. You cannot just say the same from all people.
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Post by MagicalEdgemaster5 on Jan 14, 2009 2:39:17 GMT -5
Exactly, so instead of jumping on the throat of two people that wanna get involved just because of the numbers, take a look at who they are and let them try to make it work. Who knows? We might have a real life Piper and Leo situation on our hands. (Yeah, I know, stolen reference… what can ya do?)
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Post by PiperandHolly on Nov 6, 2009 11:51:48 GMT -5
i think it dosent matter what age you are sometimes if there's a huge age difference then i do like i read in a magazine that a 17yr old was dating an OAP
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Post by HollyMarieFan on Apr 24, 2010 2:24:12 GMT -5
I dont think it matters what age you are if you are boh happy then thats all that matters although like some of you have said i think it is wrong for say a 13 year old and someone 18+ to become a couple.
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Post by halliwellwyatt on Apr 29, 2010 16:11:35 GMT -5
I believe that age does not matter. I am 19 and my fiancee is 37 this year. We have an EQUAL relatyionship decisions are made together, love is shared and we do a loit of things together but we also have seperate lives. Our ages are irrelevant because we love eachother .
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jun 2, 2010 4:37:28 GMT -5
I actually do quite agree with the arcticle.
I do think that a big age difference bring's up different experience and maturity levels. Especially when both are young. Take the example with the 14-year-old and the 21-years-old... I mean compare a girl whose 14 with one who's 21 - there's a lot of difference. Same with the boys (well, maybe not that much developement here =P ^^). And difference causes trouble... at least when it's too much.
Quote: "I can't understand though why it is acceptable if a 35 year-old went out with a 40 year-old, but it's not acceptable if a 13 year-old went out with an 18 year-old! The age difference is still the same!!!" (no1piperfan)
I guess that's because there's a lot of developement your going through in puberty - it changes you faster. I guess from maybe 25 years old up, you found your personality and maturity and that's why people might not say "ah, she's way to young for him, she doesn't really know who she is yet, she's still experimentalising, he's expecting too much from her, she doesn't know what life's like yet: that couple won't retain."
Let's turn it this way: As it's been said, you can't control feelings. If they come, they're there, if they don't, there not. Ofcourse you can try to surpress them, but... it's always said you should listen to your heart and follow it, to go the right way. Personally it's genereally not my thing to date guys that are... say more than 5 years older. That's like the maximum age difference I accept for myself. But yes, if there was one, who was like "woah *.*" to me and was 6 years older, I'd probably think it over... As I said, feelings go their own way and have a lot to say...
Which partner others choose, actually is non of my business. But I find it sort of "unusual" to pick one, that's not even in your genereation anymore...
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