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Post by halliwellfamiliar on Jul 11, 2008 8:20:44 GMT -5
Ok so for the majority of my high school life I have been pretty invisible. I have friends but I'm pretty much one of the only girls in my grade who hasn't had a boyfriend or even kissed a guy. I'm too shy to ask out guys I like no matter what anyone says. I recently got my hair dyed and cut to see if it would make me seem more appealing. Without asking a guy out, is there any other ways I can find out or try and get guys to like me?
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Post by Ms. Halliwell on Jul 18, 2008 7:15:19 GMT -5
First of all I think the idea with dying your hair pretty good... =) Nice you tried something new. Although you're shy around guys, maybe you could try - probably best together with your friend - to just sit down on the same table (in the canteen, at lunch) where a cute guy sits with his friends. At your place I'd think of topics you and your friends could talk about... on one hand you can try to built up an conversation with the guys (+ his friends) or you just talk to your friend. Perhaps you're lucky and the guys joins himself... And if not he will for sure at least recognize you the next time he see's you. And if you say hello to him then, he might answer... If you're lucky it could even lead to a friendship or more... and if so, you'll for sure get to know new people, some other guys and so on... There's just a big IF and a friendship or relationship are the mose ideal results, hehe But why not give it a try? Can't be that hard, as far as you have your friend with you.
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Post by Buffy on Aug 12, 2008 15:45:46 GMT -5
Don't worry being shy about asking a guy out is perfectly natural! Though if you want to know if they like you first, Then perhaps ask a friend to act perfectly normal around a guy you specifically like and then just say something 'Do you think my friend over there is pretty, or do you fancy her?' The best way to ask someone out is to know if they like you first! But even if that motivates you enough your still to nervous.. perhaps ask a friend if they can do that for you, Once your in a relationship you start to loose your shyness and become more attatched to the processes of relationships! Hope this helps.
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Post by piper113 on Aug 3, 2009 13:41:26 GMT -5
u can have one of ur friends to ask him for u or u can do it ur self
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Post by phoebe13 on Aug 12, 2009 22:47:02 GMT -5
I agree with with the Pipers! LOL
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Post by piper113 on Aug 14, 2009 22:01:02 GMT -5
thanks just ask
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Post by charmedforever213 on May 6, 2011 16:37:14 GMT -5
you are in school and as hard as will be try to not worry about it, once you finish school all will be better the boys are more mature for one thing of course your nervous dont think about i have a saying love comes whenyour not ready for it babe!
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